A Tale of Two Sisters

Saturday, December 29, 2012

All Of This And Nothing

I am not without shame, I put , or let me say I try to put my kids toys on Ebay.

I bought a ton of cool stuff for Jiejie from the Doll Hospital. I bought Beanie Babies?????, Muffy Vanderbears, Madame Alexanders.

For Mimi I bought Blythe , Dawn dolls and Sonny and Cher, all with the intent of selling them on Ebay????.
Whenever anyone said,"Dont take them out of the box" "They will be valuable someday"
 I usually said nope , "They will just play with it".
I recently, went into the Ebay world to sell a ton of stuff that was building up in my basement.
My dear friend was enthusiastic about helping me out. She had an Ebay shop, she knew the business.
I told her that I was reluctantly selling a modern dollhouse that I had bought for Terry?Just before Mimi came home from China.

I also listed a fur.
The fur sold for probably five times what I had expected, delivered promptly.
The abuse then began.
"My fur wasn't odor free", "My fur had wear", "My fur wasn't sent "UPS fur storage?"

I felt terribly about my friend suffering so much Ebay and email abuse from someone.  I told my friend to let the coat go for free. I wanted her to keep her 100% rating, I felt responsible.
I got a call from USPS, my coat is back, my friend has a 99.6% rating on Ebay.
I wrote a letter.
 Dear Ms. Dominique,
You have just bid upon, spent moments of your life obtaining a fur jacket.
Let me tell you a little story;

My grandmother was given this fur jacket as a gift by my grandfather John Dean. His family owned a small business in Pontiac MI.
The fur jacket was a dear gift  to my grandmother and lent out to  my aunts, only on special occasions.

My mother (who was the most attractive of the three), was asked to a Dance. My mom was seventeen years old and needed to be dressed accordingly for the occassion .

My grandma loaned her the jacket,with of course , the caution of taking care of it.
My mother was at a dance at Cranbrook Manor, with a Saarinen boy.

Years later, at Christmas time, I was standing at the front of the tree, giving out presents to my children. I made it a tradition to wear my grandmas mink by the tree.Considering its historical significance , why wouldn't you?
I reached in a little secret pocket and there were fifty dollars.
My mind raced? so did my sisters(I have four) what could have happened?
My mother would never tell.
In an effort to rid my mother of the question, I thought that I might put it on Ebay.
I asked a sweet friend to do it and she  took a chance for me

I find it unusual how people treat one another and what people think is valuable.
Regards,
Julianne

I am shameless and never going back to sell on Ebay. (for now).
The dollhouse didn't sell. 





Friday, December 21, 2012

Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas

" Now Is The Start" by A Fine Frenzy is a song placed  with brilliant piece of editing of classic Hollywood films, to appeal to the younger set.

Over the last weeks I have had the extreme pleasure of watching films with my girls.
I don't always get the most desired responses for the movies I love.

Mimi doesn't like how Beth's face looks when she cries in "Little Women" and Jie Jie couldn't get through "Little Women" ... a whole lot of cryin.

Note to self, next year, leave out "Little Women" even the new one with Batman.

JieJie, Bill and I watched " Love Actually" which also makes us cry, but in a good way.

My nephew Bob is coming to stay with us and his favorite Christmas song is " Christmas Is Around Us"I really look forward to hearing him sing it around the house constantly for 4 or 5 days.
He is also responsible for making this brilliant gem of a film about my house during the Holidays. I repost it yet again.







Thursday, November 29, 2012

Stop Me If You Think Youve Heard This One Before

I knew that my passion for music would leak onto Mimi eventually.
Paulina was the president of her middle school rock band club. She did a report on Ella Fitzgerald in the second grade.

I think that Mimi takes it to a new height. She wears her Wilco and White Stripes shirts to school every day. Her latest fixation is/are"The Smiths"
She loves "The Smiths", a brilliant band, but for an 8 year old? She doesn't listen to "One Direction" or Justin, which is more than fine.
But the Smiths? Morrisey ?  at 8 she recites the lyrics to me and I want to weep.
putting on lashes to be Cher for Halloween(fake hair)
"If a double Decker bus crashes into us . to die by your side is a pleasure the privilege,is mine". I loved it as a teen , but heck.
The best bit is that she thinks Morrisey looks exactly like Mitt.


Monday, October 1, 2012

Somewhere Between

I follow a blog called "And Babies Make Four", it is a blog written by a mother of twins who were adopted at the same time as Mimi and they are from the same orphanage.
 I have been following her  very creative and amazing blog since our girls were babies and she just posted a link to a documentary that follows the life of four adopted Chinese teenage girls over a three year span. The filmmaker is also an adoptive parent.
 I am very anxious to see it.
http://www.somewherebetweenmovie.com/


Monday, September 10, 2012

I Could Write A Book

I have an assignment from Mimi's third grade teacher to write a 1000 word essay, telling her about Mimi.

I am working it out here:
 Dear Mrs. Murphy,
I think that I can give you an idea of Mimi. I think an example of who she is could be her first grade year with Ms. Simon.
Ms. Simon had a huge influence on Mimi. Mimi proudly credits Ms Simon for teaching her how to read.

Mimi, at the beginning of her first grade year decided to ditch the name Mimi(five years in) to be called Mary.

Mimi's true name is Mary Margaret Yu Bao Sipes. This is a very large name to carry but she was named for many Mary's and Margaret's and Mary Margaret's on both sides of our family.Yu Bao is her given Chinese name.

So in her first grade year she decided to be Mary....her assignments, folders , labels  signed Mary.She wouldn't respond unless we used Mary.

Burton followed suit, but the family and friends were kind of slow to adjust, tried as we might , we couldn't make the jump.
The general public would say,"She's a Mimi, it's so hard to imagine it any other way ."

Mimi kept on being Mary for the school year and then eventually, with some hesitation, eased back in to her Mimi brand.


Mimi is strong, and stalwart . She is self reliant, but also cares a great deal about what is thought of her. Perfectionism keeps her from trying some things.

She doesn't like being told how beautiful she is.
When she stays in hotels, she immediately calls housekeeping and orders more towels and a wake up call.

She  tries to be in the background. Being in that place, she listens and takes in everything and keeps it in the back of her mind for future use.

Mimi loves routine and at times can be cynical. She is extremely agile,  centered and artistic. She loves painting, pottery, sewing and has a definite illustrative style.
Mimi loves noodles, rice, eggs and fish 
Mimi claims to not be a reader, but adores Archie comic books.

Mimi is resourceful. We often joke that she could easily be the winner on "Survivor". She has a innate  sense of direction.

Mimi is very inquisitive and wants to be told the truth. She is a homebody.

She loves music, mostly Adele, some Gershwin and a bit of Bieber thrown in.

She loves to be scared. She often jumps out from closets and behind doors to catch us off guard.
If she needs something, she will tell you. She has beautiful manners.

Mimi studies ballet and gymnastics.
She has a beloved dog named Zelda.

She wants to be a peer pal.
She is glorious.
We invite you to check out our life at mimiandjiejie.blogspot.com or Google "Sleep Warm In Your Fur"

 




Monday, September 3, 2012

Make Summer Last Forever

Today is our last official day.
Arts Beats and Eats, from the top of the Ferris Wheel

Last official late morning snuggle time
How will we spend it? Probably doing a whole lot of nothing. What a great summer it was, too fast.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Someone Somewhere In Summertime

We've been away, I would say that we have been away for most of the summer.

American Girl store Chicago

Disney week with Grandma and Aunties


Disney

Saugatuck

Home

Jefferson in Charlevoix

Greenfield Village

Malibu

Los Angeles
Our New Pharmacy



 

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